The banquet isn't about the quality of the food, or the money. It's about the event itself and what it represents. How many weddings have you been to that you "paid" at least $100 for where the food was dreadful, the hall was awful, the drinks were expensive and watered down, and the band/DJ sucked, but you still had a great time? Did you call your friend beforehand and ask, "Hey, what kind of food are you serving? I wanna figure out how nice of a gift to get for you guys. And whether or not to bring my own food."

Also: keep in mind that what goes around comes around with the ladies. You take them out somewhere all dressed up fancy, and...well, you know how most women say, "Thanks for a great evening, honey!" :twisted: